Been Struggling in Silence, Haven’t Seen My Kids in 2 Years – Rapper Dotman Regrets Relocating to America
Nigerian rapper and singer Dotman has opened up about the emotional and personal struggles he has faced since relocating to the United States, revealing that he hasn’t seen his children in over two years. In a heartfelt message shared with fans, the “Akube” crooner expressed deep regret over his move to America, stating that life abroad hasn’t been as fulfilling as he had hoped.
According to Dotman, while many believe relocating overseas guarantees a better life, his experience has been far from that narrative. “I’ve been struggling in silence. People only see the pictures and the shows, but behind all that, I’m dealing with a lot,” he said.
The artist revealed that one of his biggest pains is being separated from his kids, a situation that has taken a heavy toll on his mental and emotional health. “It’s been over two years since I last saw my children. I thought I was doing the right thing for their future, but sometimes it feels like I’ve lost more than I’ve gained,” he shared.
Dotman’s candid confession has sparked conversations about the challenges many Nigerian artists in the diaspora quietly endure, including loneliness, identity struggles, and the pressure to keep up appearances. His story also sheds light on the often-unspoken sacrifices made in pursuit of greener pastures, especially by public figures expected to always look successful.
Despite the emotional burden, Dotman says he’s trying to stay strong and hopeful that he will reunite with his kids soon. He also used the moment to encourage others in similar situations to speak up and not suffer in silence.
