“Nobody Put a Gun to Your Head to Do It” – Tina Mba Advises Colleagues on Balancing Marriage and Career
Veteran Nollywood actress Tina Mba has offered candid advice to her colleagues in the entertainment industry, urging them to carefully consider the responsibilities of marriage and its potential impact on their careers. In a heartfelt discussion on Africa Magic’s ‘Jara’ TV show, Mba emphasized the importance of readiness before entering into marriage, especially for those in demanding professions like acting.
“Marriage is a burden; it is a huge responsibility. If you are not ready for it, don’t go there,” Mba stated. She highlighted that marriage is not merely about lavish ceremonies but about genuine commitment and the ability to make it work. “What I am saying is that if you can’t keep it together, don’t venture into it,” she added.
Mba pointed out that for actresses who are also wives and mothers, the responsibilities multiply. She noted that being married should not be an excuse for declining professional commitments, as it could lead to a gradual loss of job opportunities. “Because you are married, you cannot go on a movie set and start giving excuses. You know you will be losing your jobs little by little,” she warned.
Reflecting on her personal life, Mba revealed that she is a single mother of two and has never been married. She shared that her children are products of a relationship, not of marriage, and that she has managed to balance her career and motherhood without the formal institution of marriage.
In a separate interview, Mba expressed her contentment with her current relationship status, stating, “I have found love. I am in love and will stay in love.” She emphasized that while she is open to love, marriage is not a priority for her at the moment.
Mba’s insights shed light on the challenges faced by women in the entertainment industry who strive to balance personal and professional lives. Her advice serves as a reminder that marriage should be a well-considered decision, especially for those whose careers demand significant time and dedication.
As the entertainment industry continues to evolve, Mba’s perspective encourages her colleagues to reflect on their readiness for marriage and to ensure that their personal choices align with their professional aspirations.