‘We Don’t Want Children in Nigeria’ — Rybeena Explains Decision With Wife Kidbaby
Nigerian singer Rybeena has opened up about a major decision he and his wife, content creator and actress Kidbaby, have made regarding parenthood.
The singer revealed that the couple have decided that they do not want to have their children in Nigeria, citing concerns about the country’s economic situation, living conditions and the environment in which children would grow up.
Rybeena made the revelation during an appearance on the Wahala Podcast, where he discussed his views on marriage, parenthood and life in Nigeria.
Explaining the reason behind the couple’s decision, Rybeena said his personal experiences and perception of Nigeria’s development have influenced the way he thinks about raising children.
He argued that Nigeria is still behind many other countries despite being home to some of Africa’s wealthiest individuals.
According to the singer, the country’s economic challenges were a major factor in the couple’s decision.
“Our economy and everything. So us having a child here is messed up for real.”
Rybeena also pointed to what he described as the mentality children are exposed to while growing up, saying the social environment is another concern.
For Rybeena and Kidbaby, the issue appears to go beyond the financial cost of raising a child.
The singer suggested that parents must consider the broader environment their children will grow up in, including education, opportunities, economic stability and the values that surround them.
He believes these factors are important when deciding where to raise a family.
Rybeena’s comments have generated mixed reactions online.
While some social media users sympathised with his concerns about the country’s economic challenges, others criticised the singer for choosing to leave rather than contribute to improving the country.
The debate has also revived the familiar conversation among young Nigerians about “japa”, migration and whether raising children abroad offers better opportunities than raising them locally.
Ultimately, Rybeena’s comments reflect a personal decision made by him and his wife based on how they view their future.
The singer’s remarks have nevertheless opened up a wider conversation about parenthood, Nigeria’s economic realities, migration and the kind of environment young Nigerians want for their future children.
For Rybeena and Kidbaby, their priority appears to be creating what they consider a better environment for their eventual family.
